1st Annual Knowing God Ministries Golf Tournament
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I'll be at First Presbyterian Gastonia -
April 28th
2 morning sessions; 9-12
Panera's catering!!!
Proverbs 27:15 NLT
A nagging wife is as annoying as the constant dripping on a rainy day... (Ouch!)
Warning: The message today and tomorrow will require "big girl pants." It's a hard message - but it's a topic that keeps coming up at my events. So here goes:
What do you do when your husband refuses to go to church with you? Perhaps he tells you he's tired and wants to rest. Or that he doesn't like the church... Or just plain doesn't want to go because he's an unbeliever. What do you do to change his heart and mind? Today and tomorrow, I'll attempt to tackle these very prevalent issues.
I can quickly tell you what NOT to do:
- Do not NAG him!
- Or manipulate him by using your children to ask him to go,
- Or Guilt him into going.
Let me ask you a few questions:
1. Are you allowing him to go to church where he wants to go?
- Or are you going where you want to go because that's where you've "always gone?" It's where your Mama and Daddy go? It's where your friends are. It's where your loyalties are? "It has such a great children's ministry!?"
So be very sensitive to where HE may want to go. My prayer partner from years ago one time told me, "Tara, always follow your leader." (My leader meaning, my husband.)
2. Are you careful with your plans on Saturday?
- Don't plan a million things for him to do on Saturday - like making his honey-do list a mile long + a picnic + a kid's birthday party + dinner with friends - your friends. Friends of whom he does not even care for! (How often do you do that?)
- Don't stay out late on Saturday night. If a man's worked all week, chances are, he may want a day to sleep in. Ideally, you want to aim for that day to be Saturday.
Ironically, all of the suggestions fall under the category of "respect." And don't forget what wives are COMMANDED to do: "wives, respect your husbands." (Eph.5:33) Husbands, in turn, are commanded to love their wives.
If you want LOVE in terms of the family going to church together - take an inventory and make sure you're showing respect.
Tomorrow: Part 2 -
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Monthly Luncheon – April 13th 2012
“How To Turn Your Marriage Around in 3 Days” – Nancy Cobb
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“How To Turn Your Marriage Around in 3 Days” – Nancy Cobb
Audio CD – $5.00
(Available for shipment April 20th 2012)
Tara this is such great information. I have a horrible tendency to want to "nag" my husband until he becomes the spiritual leader and that just won't work. This blog post will hit home for many.
ReplyDeleteI am one of those non-church going husbands you refer to; specifically I'm an a atheist. My wife is a Christian which is her right as it is her right to attend church just as it's my right not to. Neither of us pressures the other. We have no conflicts of interest because we do not seek to impose belief obligations on the other.
ReplyDeleteI disagree with the notion that wives are to respect their husbands while husbands, in turn, are to love their wives. Wives and husbands should love AND respect each other as equals. Man does not have authority over woman even though your holy book says he does. Your holy book is wrong, profoundly so in many of it's scriptures. OT morality is not the word of any god but the social mores of a tribe of misogynistic savages. Even my wife knows this and takes terrible offence when preachers pronounce that wives are to submit to their husbands. If you ever want to get yelled at just tell her such things and prepare to be read the riot act.